select user_id_from, min(createtime) last_visit_time from tablename group by user_id_from order by last_visit_time limit num;

select max time from tb group by usrid这样如何

额，我已经解决了，贴给大家看一看，关键是同时ORDER BY日期和人，写完了发现还是很简单的...

 <select id="getUserVisitDoListDistinct" parameterClass="java.util.Map" resultMap="userVisitDoResult">
        SELECT
            id,
            user_id_to,
            user_id_from,
            status,
            MAX(createtime) AS createtime 
        FROM
            (select * from dx_user_visit ORDER BY createtime DESC) AS foo 
        WHERE user_id_to = #user_id_to# AND user_id_from != #user_id_to#
        GROUP BY (DATE_FORMAT(createtime,"%Y%m%d")),user_id_from
        <isGreaterThan prepend="HAVING" property="lastId" compareValue="0">
           <![CDATA[
               id < #lastId# 
           ]]> 
        </isGreaterThan>
        ORDER BY createtime DESC
        LIMIT 0,#count#
    </select>

select v1.* from visit as v1
right join (
select vv1.id, max(vv1.createtime) as ctime from visit as vv1
inner join visit as vv2 on vv1.DATE_FORMAT(createtime,"%Y%m%d")=vv2..DATE_FORMAT(createtime,"%Y%m%d")
group by vv1.id
) as v2 on v1.id=v2.id and v1.createtime=v2.ctime

select v1.* from visit as v1
right join (
select id, max(createtime) as ctime from visit group by id
) as v2 on v1.id=v2.id and v1.createtime=v2.ctime